The recent remarriage of Lilian Owusu, the widow of the late politician Dr. John Kumah, has stirred mixed reactions across social media. Lilian, now known as Apostle Lilian Aryeequaye, married Accra-based politician Samuel Aryeequaye on December 19, 2025, approximately 1.5 years after the passing of her husband.
Dr. John Kumah, a former Deputy Minister of Finance and Member of Parliament for Ejisu, passed away after a brief illness on March 7, 2025, at the age of 45. His funeral, held on May 18, 2024, in his hometown of Onwe, was attended by political leaders, colleagues, and many Ghanaians who mourned his death. Kumah was highly regarded for his philanthropic work and his strong connection with his constituency.
Lilian's remarriage to Samuel Aryeequaye, a philanthropist and politician, has ignited debate, with some questioning whether it is too soon for her to remarry. Many online commentators expressed concerns about the timing, with some suggesting that Lilian may have been planning her next relationship even before her husband's passing.
One user remarked, “The thing no take long koraaa,” implying that Lilian’s remarriage was quick. Another comment cynically suggested that the man she married was likely “already on her reserved bench awaiting possible substitution into the game of marriage.” Others voiced frustration, with one person stating, "Fake tears all because the support system is gone."
However, many supporters have come to Lilian's defense, pointing out that being a widow shouldn’t mean a lifetime of solitude. They argued that life is for the living, and that if Lilian were their own mother, they would encourage her to find happiness again. “If she were your mother, would you advise her to stay single at her age?” one user asked.
In addition, some pointed to Akan tradition, where widowhood rites typically last for at least a year before a woman can remarry. These rites, which are not intended as punishment, aim to determine if the widow was pregnant before her husband's death, among other customs. According to this tradition, a widow has the right to remarry after completing the rites if she chooses to do so.
While some have celebrated Lilian's new chapter in life, her daughter, Huldah Kumah, also joined her mother in a viral TikTok challenge ahead of the wedding, showing their bond. Many have congratulated Lilian and Samuel on their new journey together.
Lilian’s remarriage has certainly sparked widespread conversation, with some questioning the pace of her decision and others supporting her right to move forward with her life. It’s a story that has captured the attention of many Ghanaians, prompting reflections on love, grief, and moving on.
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