A Nigerian woman has stirred widespread reactions online after declaring that any man interested in dating her must be financially prepared to spend between ₦5 million and ₦10 million within the first week of their “talking stage.”
In a viral video making the rounds on social media, the lady stated that financial commitment is her primary benchmark for determining whether a man is capable of dating or eventually marrying her. According to her, conversations without tangible financial effort are meaningless and a waste of her time.
“For us to be in a talking stage, you should be ready to spend at least ₦5 million to ₦10 million in the first week of us talking,” she said.
Questioning the Value of Casual Conversations
The lady argued that words alone carry little value without financial action. She questioned the purpose of casual chats—such as discussing favorite foods or daily routines—if money is not involved.
“A talking stage is for me to know if you have the capacity to date me or marry me. If we’re talking and you’re not spending money, what am I supposed to do with your words?” she asked.
Warning to Men Who Cannot Meet Her Standard
She further advised men who cannot meet her expectations to seek partners elsewhere, stressing that she has no interest in managing or financially supporting anyone. Emphasizing her stance, she noted her appearance, personal grooming, and educational background as reasons she believes her standards are justified.
The lady concluded by making it clear that she is determined not to allow anyone waste her time, insisting that financial readiness is non-negotiable for anyone hoping to pursue a relationship with her.
The video has since generated intense debate online, with social media users expressing mixed reactions—ranging from support for her honesty to criticism of what some describe as unrealistic expectations.
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