A Nigerian woman has ignited widespread discussion on social media after making a bold statement about why many men claim to prefer independent women in relationships.
In a video that has gone viral on X (formerly Twitter), shared by user @Teniola, the woman argued that this preference is often driven less by respect or admiration and more by financial convenience. According to her, some men are drawn to women who earn their own income because it makes it easier to ask them for money.
Sharing her perspective, she said, “The reason why men want an independent woman is to borrow money from them. There’s no woman I know that hasn’t borrowed a guy money.”
Her remarks quickly sparked intense reactions online. Many women echoed her sentiments, recounting personal experiences where they felt financially taken advantage of in relationships. Others, however, disagreed, insisting that independence should not be framed as an opportunity for exploitation and that healthy relationships require mutual respect and responsibility.
Reacting to the video, one social media user commented, “Not all men, but some definitely feel entitled to women’s money.” Another added, “Being independent doesn’t mean being a loan bank.”
As the video continues to trend, it has reopened broader conversations about money, gender roles, and expectations in modern relationships, with opinions sharply divided across social media platforms.
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